Waking relationships often carry into your dreams,
especially if there are unresolved feelings or issues. Relationship dreams offer
advice and guidance.
dream that you are abandoned suggests that it is time to leave behind past
feelings and characteristics that are hindering your growth. Let go of your old
attitudes. A more direct and literal interpretation of this dream indicates you
have a fear of being deserted, abandoned, or even betrayed. It may stem from a
recent loss or a fear of losing a loved one. The fear of abandonment may
manifest itself into your dream as part of the healing process and dealing with
losing a loved one. It may also stem from unresolved feelings or problems from
childhood. Alternatively, the dream indicates that you are feeling neglected or
that your feelings are being overlooked. Perhaps the dream is a metaphor that
you need to approach life with "reckless abandon" and live more
abandon others in your dream suggests that you are overwhelmed by the problems
and decisions in your life.
dream you are abusing someone suggests that your past actions will come back to
haunt you. You may be expressing some regret or remorse over your actions.
dream you are being verbally or physically abused suggests that you are feeling
victimized in a waking situation. You are being taking advantage of.
dream that you commit adultery or have an affair signifies your sexual urges and
desires that are longing to be expressed. Alternatively, it indicates
self-betrayal of your subconscious. You may find yourself entangled in a
situation that is not in your best interest, perhaps even illegal.
dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you highlights
your insecurities and your fears of being abandoned. You feel that you are being
taken for granted. You are lacking attention in the relationship or that he or
she is being less affectionate. Alternatively, you feel that you are not
measuring up to the expectations of others.
dream that you are showing your affections for someone represents your
satisfaction and happiness with a current relationship. It may also indicate
your need to be more affectionate to the ones you love and care about.
Alternatively, dreaming about affection may be an indicator that you are lacking
affection in your waking life.
dream that you are paying alimony means that you are paying for your past
actions and mistakes.
dream that you are amorous symbolizes temptations. Your personal desires and
illicit pleasures may land you into trouble. You will find yourself engulfed in
dream that others are amorous signifies that others will try to persuade you
into illicit pleasures and abandon your own sense of morality.
see animals amorous in your dream represent animalistic desires. Do not give in
to temptation as they will be unfulfilling and unsatisfying.
dream that you are getting an annulment suggests that you are in denial about
dream that you are apologizing to someone refers to your desire for harmony and
truth in your waking life. Perhaps you are feeling guilty about something. Or
the dream is a way for your subconscious to alert you to some wrongdoing that
you are responsible for. Alternatively, an apology symbolizes forgiveness. You
need to let go of some grudge.
dream that someone is apologizing to you implies that you feel mistreated or
wronged. Consider the significance of who is apologizing to you. Perhaps you
feel you have betrayed an aspect of your own character.
dream that you are arguing suggests that you are trying to resolve some internal
conflict or some unsettled issue in your waking life. Consider
the symbolism of whom you are arguing with and what you are arguing about.
does he or she reflect some person or some aspect of yourself in your waking
dream that you have been betrayed represents your suspicions about a particular
person, relationship or situation. This dream often occurs when you are
having feelings of insecurity and are faced with major commitments
in your life at the same time.
dream that someone has betrayed you indicates self-pity. You are feeling sorry
dream that you are on a blind date represents unknown aspects of yourself that
you are trying to get know or acknowledge.
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dream that you break up with your significant other indicates that there is
something in your life that you need to let go no matter how hard it may be.
dream that your boyfriend or girlfriend is breaking up with you indicates that
your relationship is moving to the next level. In a way, it is an end to
something; you are leaving some past behind. At the same time, it is the start
of something new or better. It is important to remember that such a dream is not
an omen that the relationship is not working out. As a relationship evolves and
grows, it also changes.
dream that you did not break up with your boyfriend or girlfriend suggests that
you are still in denial about the break-up. Your mind many not have accepted the
notion that the relationship is over.
dream that you are cheating on your spouse mate, fiancÚ, or significant
other suggests feelings of self-guilt and self-betrayal. You may have
compromised your beliefs or integrity and/or wasting your energy and time
on fruitless endeavors. Alternatively,
cheating dreams reflect the intensity of your sexual passion; you are exploring
areas of your sexuality. In this scenario, the dream may actually serve as a
reaffirmation of your commitment. Furthermore, if you are approaching your
own wedding date, then it is not uncommon to have dreams about erotic
experiences with partners other than your intended spouse. Most likely, such a
dream represents the newness of your sexual passion. It may also signify
anxieties of changing your identity - that of a spouse.
dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you indicates
your fears of being abandoned. You may feel a lack of attention in the
relationship. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the
expectations of others. This notion may stem from issues of trust or
self-esteem. The dream could also indicate that you are subconsciously picking up
hints and cues that your significant other is not being completely truthful or
is not fully committed in the relationship.
dream that your friend is being cheated on indicates your subconscious
dislike for his/her significant other. You think your friend deserves to be
dream that you are cheating at a game suggests that you are not being honest
with yourself. You feel inadequate and insecure.
dream that you are crushing something denotes that you are under tremendous
stress over a decision that you need to make. If you dream that a part of your
body is being crushed, then it suggests that you are being prevented to full
dream that you have a crush on somebody is a literal reflection of your
attraction and fascination for that person. To see
your crush in your dream represents your current infatuation with her or him. If
you find yourself thinking about her or him during the day, then it is not
surprising that their image will appear in your dream during the night. If you
dream of your crush frequently or that your crush likes you back, then your
dream maybe be telling you that it is time to let this person know how you feel,
especially if you are dreaming of her or him in a good way. Only good things can
happen from you telling your crush. Even if she or he is not interested, at
least you can move on and stop wasting time on her or him.
dream that your crush has died suggests that your feelings for her or him is
waning; the crush is no longer as strong. The dream may also be telling you to
you dream that somebody has a crush on you, then it represents you own sense of
worthiness and esteem.
dream about a former crush refers to a particular period in your life and what
you were feeling then. Perhaps a waking relationship is repeating the same
dream that you are on a date represents your need for self-discovery and
self-awareness. You are getting to know some hidden aspects of yourself and
acknowledging your hidden talents. Alternatively, it may reflect your anxieties
about dating or finding acceptance. The dream may also be a
"rehearsal" for an actual date you have. It serves to overcome
anxieties you may have.
dream that you are dating two people at the same time signifies passion in your
own personal relationship. This dream does not necessarily mean that you want to
stray from your significant other. It may also indicate some anxiety on some
major change in the relationship.
dream of a date, as in a particular, month, day and year represents the passing
of time and past events. The dream may also be a reminder of a special event,
appointment or important date in your waking life. Also consider the
significance of the numbers in the date.
dream that you are on a double date represents the dualities of your personality
- the persona you show to the world and your true Self. Alternatively, the dream
may simply mean togetherness and your need to socialize.
dream that you are engaged to be married represents sexual or relationship
needs. You may be trying to resolve your feelings of loneliness. Alternatively,
it symbolizes your commitments and desires for security. More directly, if you
are unmarried, the dream may indicate your desires for some form of commitment.
you dream that you are engaged to your father, then it implies that you are
looking for a father figure. The dream does not mean that you want to actually
marry your father. Perhaps your father is not around much and you just want more
of a relationship with him. Alternatively, the dream may mean that you want
someone who is as good to you as your father.
dream that you break an engagement denotes a hasty and unwise decision in some
dream of a business engagement signifies concern and worries in some area of
dream about your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend or ex-husband/wife, that you and your
ex are kissing/fighting or that you and your ex got back together again suggests
that something or someone in your current life is bringing out similar feelings
you felt during that relationship with your ex. The dream may be a way of
alerting you to similar behavioral patterns in your current relationship. What
you learn from that previous relationship may need to be applied to the present
one so that you do no repeat the same mistakes. Alternatively, you may be
reflecting on the positive experiences and good times that you shared with your
past love. Dreams of getting back together with your ex or of your ex
wanting to get back together with you may not necessarily be a reflection of
reality. This dream may be triggered by some major change in your current
relationship and how far you have come from those past relationships.
particular, to see your ex-husband/wife in your dream indicates that you are
currently finding yourself in a situation that you do not want to be in.
It suggests that you are experiencing a similar relationship or situation which
makes you feel unhappy and uncomfortable. Alternatively, dreaming that you are
together with your ex-husband/wife implies that you are subconsciously repeating
the same old patterns from that relationship to your current relationship. You
are making the same mistakes and reacting the same way.
dream that your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend is missing you suggests that you
"miss" some aspect of that past relationship. A situation in your
current life may be reminding you of your relationship with your ex.
Alternatively, the dream may mean that you have moved on with your life. The
notion that your ex is missing you may be a pun on that he has
"missed" his opportunity or "missed" his chance with you.
see your mate's ex in your dream suggests that you are comparing yourself to the
ex. The dream is telling you not to make the same relationship mistakes that
ended that relationship.
dream that you ex has died indicates that your feelings for your ex are
completely dead now. The dream is a metaphor of how you have let go of the past
and are ready to move on and fully devote yourself to new relationships.
seeing your ex in your dream may also signify aspects of yourself that you have
x'd out or neglected.
see an old ex-boyfriend from childhood in your dream refers to a freer, less
encumbered relationship. The dream serves to bring you back to a time where the
responsibilities of adulthood (or marriage) did not interfere with the
spontaneity of romance. You need to recapture the excitement, freedom, and
vitality of youth that is lacking in your present relationship. If your
ex-boyfriend hurts or ignores you, then the dream is telling you to move on with
your life and stop thinking about your ex. If you dream that you want your
ex-boyfriend back, then the dream may reflect waking feelings of actually
wanting him back. Alternatively, it means that you miss being in a relationship
and to feel wanted.
dream that your ex-boyfriend is giving you advice about your current
relationship suggests that your subconscious is telling you not to repeat the
same mistakes that you had made with this ex-boyfriend.
dream that you are being massaged by your ex-boyfriend suggests that you need to
let go of some of that defensiveness that you have been putting forth as a
result of a past relationship. You may have put up a wall or armor around you.
You need to learn to trust people again.
dream that your ex-boyfriend is giving you a ring or proposing to you implies
that your relationship with him made you feel whole and complete. The dream does
not necessarily mean that you want to be together with him again, but that you
are longing for a relationship that makes you feel complete. Alternatively, the
dream may reflect a final end to something and the beginning of a new stage. You
are ready to move on from your ex. By him proposing to you, the power is on your
side whether you say yes or no.
dream that your ex-boyfriend gives you a stuffed animal suggests that you are
seeking for reassuring and nurturing aspects of a relationship. This is not to
imply that you want you ex-boyfriend back. Alternatively, the dream could
represent some immature relationship which may describe the relationship you had
with your ex.
dream that your ex-boyfriend is admitted into the hospital means that you are
still dealing with the break-up. There are still some unresolved issues left
hanging. If he is released from the hospital, then it means that you have
totally let go of the relationship. You have moved on. If you
dream that your ex-boyfriend is dressed in a suit at a hospital, then it suggests
that you have come to terms with that relationship and have completed the
dream that you walk off or walk away with your ex boyfriend indicates that your
current love interests are not measuring up to your ex boyfriend.
dream that you are kidnapped by your ex-boyfriend suggests that your ex still
has some sort of emotional hold on you.
dream that your ex-girlfriend is pregnant depends if the baby is yours or not.
If you dream that the baby is yours, then it implies your subconscious desires
to get back with your ex-girlfriend. If the baby is not yours, then it means
that you have fully accepted that the relationship is over. You still care for
her even though the two of you are no longer together.
see your ex-girlfriend's mother in your dream indicates some unresolved issues
with your ex-girlfriend. You are wanting to reach out to her mother in order to
get through to the ex-girlfriend.
about your current boyfriend's ex-girlfriend reflects your own feelings of
insecurity. You wonder if you measure up. In a way, you feel that she is still a
lingering part of your current relationship, whether it is physical or
dream that you are flirting or that someone is flirting with you represents your
need for intimacy and affection. You may be about to enter into a serious
commitment or relationship in the near future.
dream that your spouse or significant other is flirting with someone else
indicates that you are feeling an emotional or physical distance from her. There
is a lack of communication in the relationship.
see your girlfriend in your dream represents your waking relationship with her
and how you feel about her.
To dream that you are pretending to be someone's
girlfriend implies that you are not ready to settle down into a committed relationship. You don't want to be tied down.
dream that you are meeting your girlfriend's parents is a rehearsal for the
actual meeting. You may be nervous about meeting them and it's probably been
weighing on your mind. If you have already meet your girlfriend's parents and
dream of meeting them again, then the dream is a reminder for you to be on your
best behavior. You tend to be more on your toes when it comes to someone else's
that you are watching your girlfriend have sex with someone else suggests that
you are taking a passive role in your sex life. Maybe you feel that you are not
satisfying her. The dream is signaling you to communicate your sexual concerns
and/or desires. Alternatively, the dream may reflect a personal fantasy you
dream that you are going through a heartbreak signifies transitions and changes.
Alternatively, the dream suggest that you are lacking love or support in some
endeavor in your life. There is an imbalance. A more literal interpretation of
this dream means that you are going through some sort of emotional turmoil in
your waking life. You do not know how to deal with those feelings.
To dream that you
are hugging someone symbolizes your loving and caring nature. You are holding
someone or something close to your heart. Alternatively, it may indicate your
need to be more affectionate.
To dream that
someone is hugging you suggests that you need to let down your guard and allow
your true feelings to show. It also means that you need to allow yourself to
To see your
husband in your dream signifies the waking relationship with your husband and
the subconscious feelings you have towards him. The dream may be trying to focus
on hidden elements that you are not addressing in your waking life.
To dream that you
have a husband (but you do not in your waking life) symbolizes some sort of
partnership and/or commitment. Often, your dream husband represents the
qualities of your father in which you projected onto this figure or the
masculine side of your own personality.
To dream that your
husband has no teeth or is wearing dentures implies that he is not being honest
or truthful about some matter. Perhaps he is hiding something.
To dream that you
are searching for your husband implies that you feel he is not always there for
you. You are feeling disconnected and neglected, both emotionally and physically.
dream that you are ignoring someone or being ignored represents some aspect of
yourself which you are not paying enough attention to. Perhaps you are
overlooking something. Alternatively, it may reflect your real waking
experiences of being ignored by that person.
dream that you are independent represents endless possibilities. The dream may
also be telling you that you need to stand up for yourself, make your own
decisions and think on your own.
dream that you are being indifferent suggests that you are trying to hide your
true concerns. You do not want to let on that you care or that you really feel a
dream that someone is indifferent towards you implies that you are unsure of
their intentions or feelings.
dream of infidelity (either by you or someone else) represents issues of
abandonment and neglect in a relationship. Or you are feeling emotionally
confined and need an outlet for your feelings. Alternatively, a dream of
infidelity indicates that you are feeling unsatisfied with your current
relationship. You are harboring guilt over a sexual relationship or you are
looking for a more erotic sex life.
dream of a kiss denotes love, affection, tranquility, harmony, and contentment. In
particular, if you are dreaming of your first kiss, then it may just be the
anticipation of experiencing your actual first kiss. This dream is also symbolic
of young love and fresh romance. Perhaps the dream is telling you that you need
to inject some more romance into your waking relationship. To see others kissing
in your dream suggest that you are too involved in someone else's personal lives
and relationship. You need to give them some space. If the dream ends just about
as you are about to kiss someone, then it indicates that you are unsure of how
he or she really feels about you. You are looking for some sort of
relationship with this person but you are not sure about how to go about
achieving it. If you are heterosexual and you dream that you are kissing someone
of the same sex, then it represents self-acceptance. You are acknowledging the
feminine or masculine side. To dream that you are kissing yourself also
represents self-acceptance, as well as self-love. You need to accept and love
who you are, even your flaws or shortcomings.
dream that you are kissing someone's hand or someone is kissing your hand signifies
respect, reverence and admiration. If you are kissing
someone's foot, then it denotes respect and humility. If you are kissing someone
on the cheek or someone is kissing you on the cheek, then it signifies adoration, courtesy,
friendship and/or respect. To dream that you are
kissing someone on the neck or vice versa refers to uninhibited passion and
lust. You are giving into your physical desires.
dream that you are kissing someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend indicates your
wish to be in a relationship and to experience the energy of love. Perhaps you
are somewhat jealous. You may be sexually acting out and desire to awaken your
passion. Alternatively, the dream indicates a lack of integrity on your part.
dream that you are kissing your ex indicates that you are looking back on the positive experiences and good times that you shared with your
past love. This dream may be triggered by some major change in your current
relationship and how far you have come from those past relationships.
you are kissing a close friend, then it represents your respect and adoration
for your friend. You are seeking some intimate closeness that is lacking in some
waking relationship. It may or may not signify a romantic interest for her or him.
you dream that you are kissing a stranger, then it represents acknowledgement
and acceptance of the repressed aspect of yourself. If you are kissed by a
stranger, then your dream is one of self-discovery. You need to get more
acquainted with some aspect of yourself.
dream that you are kissing a celebrity indicates your drive to be
successful. Consider what qualities or movies you associate this celebrity with or what makes
this celebrity famous for clues as to where and what you want to achieve success
in. Alternatively, the dream may just represent your waking fascination or obsession with
this particular celebrity. You may be fantasizing about idealistic romance and
dream of kissing an enemy signifies betrayal, hostility, or reconciliation with
an angry friend. Consider also the saying "this kiss of death". If
someone tries to kiss you against your will, then it means that someone is
shoving their ideas, beliefs and opinions in your face. He or she is forcing you
to do something that you do not really want to do. This dream may also mean that
you are refusing to accept some repressed aspect of yourself.
of giving or receiving a bloody kiss symbolizes the depth of your passion. You
do not hold back in your relationship and tend to give your full self into
To dream of love
or being in love suggests intense feelings carried over from a waking
relationship. It refers to your contentment with what you already have and where
you are in life. On the other hand, the dream may be compensatory and implies
that you may not be getting enough love in your life. We naturally long for the
sense to belong and to be accepted.
To see a couple in
love or expressing love to each other indicates success ahead for you.
To dream that your
friend is in love with you may be one of wish
fulfillment. Perhaps you have developed feelings for your friend and are
wondering how he or she feels. Your preoccupation has found its way into your
dreaming mind. On the other hand, the dream may suggests that you have accepted
certain qualities of your friend and incorporated it into your own character.
To dream that you
are making love in public or in different places relates to some overt sexual
issue or need. Your dream may be telling you that you need to express
yourself more openly. Alternatively, it represents your perceptions about your
own sexuality in the context of social norms. You may be questioning your
feelings about sex, marriage, love, and gender roles.
To dream of your
lost love represents an idealistic relationship. You are looking for romance, excitement,
and freshness that is lacking in your present relationship.
To dream that you
are being told that you were never loved refers to your own personal feelings of
being unworthy. Such feelings stem from feelings of guilt and/or low
To dream that you are part of a love triangle where you are in love with the same person indicates that you are experiencing some form of insecurity and jealousy in your waking relationship. You feel that your attention or time is being divided. If you dream that you are in love with two different persons, then it means that you are not completely committed to your current relationship. Alternatively, the persons involved in the love triangle may all be aspects of your own self. You are experiencing some strong emotional conflict.
To see a lover in
your dream symbolizes acceptance, self-worth, and acknowledgement of your true
inner value. You are integrating aspects of the feminine and the masculine. As a
result, you are feeling complete and whole. Alternatively, your dream lover
may also be someone who is your ideal. The dream could be compensatory for an
unsatisfactory or unfulfilling relationship in your real life.
To dream of an old
or former lover signifies unfinished/unresolved issues related to that specific
relationship. Perhaps, your current relationship is awakening some of those same
To dream of lust
or that you are lusting after someone suggests that you are feeling unfulfilled
in some aspect of your life. Alternatively, lust means that you need to
exercise some self-control.
To dream that
someone is lusting after you means that you think highly of yourself. You have
an elevated sense of self-worth and self-esteem.
that you are making out with someone suggests that you have an subconscious desire to pursue a relationship, but fear that it will jeopardize the
friendship. If you don't like this person in this way, then the dream suggests
that you need to acknowledge and incorporate aspects of this person into your
own character. Consider specific traits that this person possess.
about a miscommunication indicates waking difficulties in expressing yourself
and in getting your point across. You are suffering from feelings of inadequacy.
dream that you are the opposite sex suggests that you need to
incorporate certain qualities of the opposite sex. Ask yourself, how do you feel
being a man or a woman? In what ways can you incorporate those feelings into
your waking life.
To dream that you
are being proposed to indicates that you are merging a previously unknown aspect
of yourself More directly, the dream may mean that you are thinking about
marriage or some serious long-term commitment/project/situation. Are you
thinking about proposing to someone? Your reaction to the proposal indicates
your true feelings about marriage or commitment.
To dream about
your waking relationships indicate wish-fulfillment. Your dream relationship
usually parallels your waking relationship in some way and may be highlighting
something that you are doing wrong. In your dream state, you may be more incline
to confront issues that you would normally ignore or are afraid of bringing up.
Compare your dream relationship with your waking relationship.
To dream about a
relationship with a stranger represents the different sides of your personality.
You may be trying to connect to unknown aspects of your subconscious.
dream that you have a secret admirer suggests that there are some unknown
aspects of yourself that you need to find out about and incorporate into your
character. Alternatively, the dream may be drawing your attention to someone who
is interested in you. Or perhaps the dream is telling you to be more aware of
dream of seduction is an expression of your sexual desires. You need to be more
passionate and direct with your sexual needs. Alternatively, the dream may mean
that you are being lured into doing something you don't really want to do. You
may be giving up your power of choice.
dream of a separation suggests that you are experiencing some separation
anxiety. You are afraid of feeling unneeded or abandoned. Alternatively, the
dream means that you need to looking at an issue more objectively. You need to
pull yourself away from a situation and look at it from afar.
you are not single, but dream that you are, then it suggests that you need to
stand up for yourself. You need to approach a situation or matter on your own
instead of leaning on others. Be strong. Alternatively, the dream may be a
metaphor that you are being "singled" out or being picked on.
To see your wife
in your dream signifies discord and unresolved issues. Pay attention to how you
feel in the dream as it may highlight feelings that you are not expressing in
your waking life. If you do not actually have a wife, then your dream wife
symbolizes the feminine aspects of yourself. Perhaps you may even be expressing
a desire to be in a committed relationship. Or the dream may just be a
reflection of your waking life and bear no real significance.
To dream about
your husband's deceased wife suggests that you are trying to connect with your
husband in the same way that she connected with him. You can't help comparing
yourself to her.